28 August 2022 (Sunday) - Family Bingo Afternoon

Another restless night; despite going to bed earlier than usual I slept for less than five hours, and after two more hours of laying wide awake I got up.

With the puppies tiddled and settled with “er indoors TM” I made toast and watched another episode of “Shadow and Bone” then phoned Eastbourne hospital to find out how Dad had done overnight. I spoke to one of the nurses who said that he was still unable to swallow and they’ve put a tube in to feed him. He don’t like it and is trying to pull it out. They’ve put mittens on him to try to stop him.

He was being reviewed by the chest people this morning as he seems to be developing a chest infection (from where he’s not swallowing properly). He’s been on oxygen overnight but his O2 level was back where it should have been.

There was talk of physio and speech therapy after the weekend…

I decided not to go down to visit today as they said there was really not a lot of change… Yesterday and Friday I was convinced I was tiring him out by being there.

 

I went into the garden and fiddled about wit the pond. I laid the paving slabs and got the splash pool cleaned out. I then fiddled about plumbing in the new second filter box, and got the slide covered over  to make a cascade…

After over two hours I stopped; not entirely happy with what I’d done. The slide/cascade arrangement is far too short. If I can get a longer one I can push the filter boxes back and disguise them. It will stay as it is until such time as I can get a slide thingy which is two metres long (double the length of the one I’ve got) or until I get fed up with it.

 

I took the dogs to the woods where we had a good walk. We met three sets of dogs and all encounters went well. The puppies said hello nicely, and Treacle kept her distance.

With the rain having subsided we went round to the abode of “My Boy TM” for a family bingo afternoon. Over the year everyone has put in ten quid each month, and we had several rounds of bingo for cash prizes. Bearing in mind what I’d put in over the last few months I was twenty quid down on the deal. But it wasn’t about the money; we had a rather good afternoon. And after six pints of ale it was all rather vague…

27 August 2022 (Satuday) - Back to Eastbourne

I slept surprisingly well last night. Yesterday had been rather full-on. I’d spent much of the shift at work telling people that what with dog walk and shopping I was worn out before I started work, and I suppose following that with an impromptu road trip of a hundred miles didn’t help matters. Mind you after five hours I was wide awake.
 
I made toast and phoned the hospital (East Dean ward) and was told that Dad had had a “good night”. What an utterly meaningless phrase that is. Apparently when I phoned he was sleeping but was easily roused. I made an appointment for me and my brother to visit this afternoon (you have to make appointments to visit!) then saw about some brekkie.
With little of note on-line I went into the garden. I had a look at the fountain attachments I bought yesterday. It turned out they weren’t what I wanted, but I bodged the pond’s fountain into shape, and managed to hide its power cable too. And I then cleaned out the pond filter. It cleaned far quicker and easier than the old one ever did.
 I unloaded the car of the cobles and rocks that I bought yesterday, and with “My Boy TM” busy I managed to get the heavy paving slabs out and into place; even if I did do for my back and cut my hand rather impressively. As I waited for the bleeding to stop I mooched about planning until it was time to set off.
 
There had been plans to go to the monthly geo-meet today. There had also been plans to go to the Duck Race in Hythe. Instead I drove to Hastings, and after a cuppa with family (together with my brother) I set off to the Eastbourne hospital for the second time in as many days.
Dad was as well as could be expected the day after a major stroke. He was sleeping, but woke when he heard us. He tried to speak to us, but was slurring a lot. He wasn’t happy about being in hospital; he certainly wasn’t happy about being in Eastbourne. He wanted lemonade, but as he seems to have lost the ability to swallow that was a big no-no. We stayed with him for forty minutes, but it was clear we were tiring hm by being there, so we slipped off as he slept.
 
I came home to a message from “er indoors TM”; she was off to the woods with the dogs. Did I want to come along? I did. We had a good walk. And with walk walked we came home for a bit of dinner. Maria had sent up some pies… Oh they were good.
 
I’m feeling rather worn out… I’ve had a rather stressful couple of days. And my hand is rather sore.

26 August 2022 (Friday) - International Dog Day

The internet was rather dull as I scoffed toast. But not as dull as the morning's radio. As we took the short drive to the woods the sports news was on. They really might have been continually repeating "blah blah sport" for all that it interested me. I have always maintained that sport is to be done, not watched. And as for listening to some has-beens (or never-were) talking about sporting events that happened yesterday... I suppose enough people must be interested in this to have it on the radio...

 

We got to the woods and had a good walk. Everyone behaved and came when called (eventually). No one rolled in anything disgusting. All in all, a good walk.

As we drove out of the car park I saw there were a lot of "non dog walkers" in the car park. There are two sorts of people who go to the woods. The dog walkers park as close to the path into the woods as they can. The non dog walkers park by the entrance and then just sit in their cars. The same people sitting in their cars when we arrive will still be sitting in their cars when we leave an hour later. There were quite a few of these today.

I realise the woods are a rather pretty place to be, but sitting in the car park?

Narrowly avoiding a collision with a van from J Knight and Sons we made our way home. I've often remarked on the fallacy of having your business emblazoned on the side of your van if you are going to drive like a lunatic.

 

I settled the dogs, and set off on another shopping mission. I shall need more pond hose, rocks and cobbles for the planned pond project so I got that from Bybrook Barn. Eventually. No one told me that the main road going west out of Ashford was closed. It took a while to navigate the diversions.

Bybrook Barn also had a new attraction; a "Compost Drive Thru"; I decided against that. however they didn't have the bits I need for the upgrade to the pond's fountain so I went to the pond shop in Notcutts where I found a rather helpful assistant. A great improvement on the miserable one I encountered in Aylesford yesterday. I explained what I wanted, and the girl in Notcutts was quite honest. She didn't know if she had anything, so she rummaged under the counter and dug out her box of odds and sods and said I could have a rummage to see if I could find anything useful.

I did.

As I walked back to my car a passing elderly couple were telling all and sundry to avoid the butchers in Notcutts as "it smelled rank". I didn't small anything as I walked past; I wonder how many people they put off going in there?

 

I then had a stroke of genius and realised that my next project required paving slabs, so I went to Wickes. How easy to type "I went to Wickes". Have you ever tried to drive thought Maidstone. usually I go right round the outside, but Wickes is right in the middle, and Maidstone has a (frankly) bloody awful one-way system. But I got there, and as I queued to pay there was a near punch-up. I must admit that the chap in front of me did himself no favours. He was standing around some five yards from the tills. I asked if he was in the queue; he glared at me, walked back another five yards and said it was a socially distanced queue. So socially distanced that another shopper didn't even realise there was a queue and went straight up to the tills. The chap advocating social distancing might be scared of COVID-19 but he certainly wasn't scared of people pushing in. It was rather entertaining, but I managed not to laugh out loud.

I then put my back out heaving the larger paving slabs into the car. The first fruit of my loin says he'll help me move them tomorrow.

 

With a little time on my hands I popped to Sainsburys (as I'd forgotten to pick up lunch). I saw that petrol prices are falling, and that Sainsbury's in Aylesford are selling the stuff seven pence a litre cheaper than in Ashford.

And so to work where having cake made for a rather good day. Unlike “er indoors TM” who messaged me a photo of little Bailey who had smothered herself in fox poo. She don't do that when I walk her... but I suppose that what with today being "International Dog Day" she did it as a celebration.

 

And just as I was on the final stretch at work my phone rang. Dad had been taken ill and an ambulance was on the way. I left work immediately. And as I drove I got the message that the ambulance was taking him to the hospital in Eastbourne. Maidstone to Eastbourne in the dark wasn’t the best of trips, but I arrived in the car park at the same time as my brother, and we actually beat the ambulance with Dad and sister in law by a couple of minutes.

After a lot of waiting and waiting I eventually got in to see him… He’d had a stroke and didn’t seem to be in a good way. Eventually the staff moved him to a ward, and it was clear that he needed a good night’s sleep, and there was nothing more to be achieved by our hanging round getting in everyone’s way…

I got home at one o’clock… which was a lot earlier than I had expected.

25 August 2022 (Thursday) - Before the Late Shift

I made toast and as I scoffed it I saw something on Facebook. The "Pantosaurus" song has been stuck in my head all day... Remember – your pants cover up your private parts!!!

 

As I drove the dogs to the woods for an early morning walk there was some gay Christian icon being interviewed on the radio who making great show of being gay and of being a Christian. Now I have no issue with the gay community at all. Many friends and members of my family are gay. I have some issues with Christians though; mostly because they don't actually understand what being a Christian is all about... and that is why Gay Christians annoy me so much.

Have you ever read the Bible? I have. I used to be a steward in the Methodist church. It was up to me to hire and fire the vicars. So I know a little bit about the Bible. Much of it is contradictory, and there are a lot of occasions in which for every statement the Bible makes on a subject, there is another saying the direct opposite... except for homosexuality. The Bible is crystal clear on this matter. The Bible thinks it is a big no-no. Gay Christians are going against the direct orders of their God... 

(Personally I'm with the gay community rather than the Christian one here, but read the Bible. Seriously. According to the established teachings of the religion, the two don't mix - if you disagree, don't tell me, tell God!)

 

We got to the woods and had a walk, and I realised something. Treacle has always been wary of other dogs, but recently she has been a lot braver, standing up for the puppies. But today when the puppies went to say hello to two Spaniels we often meet, Treacle shied away. She did that yesterday too. She's gone back to her old ways;  has she decided the puppies are old enough to stick up for themselves? To be fair they (mostly) don't need sticking up for any more.

 

We came home, the dogs went to sleep, and I set off on a little mission. Navigating my way through all the road works in Ashford (and there were a *lot*) I eventually got through and out to Canterbury where I picked up a child's garden slide. A straight one. This will form the central part of my next garden project.

From Canterbury I drove through the rain up to Sheerness where I had a little look-see at the stuff in Whelan's. I saw something else that I might need for the next garden project, but wasn't sure, so I contented myself with two garden gnomes and a dragon. It was a shame that some idiot driver forced me to brake so hard that one of the gnomes bashed against the dragon and chipped it...

I then faced something of a hold-up on the A249. There are massive road works at the junction of that road with the M2. Were I the Minister for Transport I'd bring in a rule whereby that if someone digs up the road they have to fix what they have dug up before digging the next bit... There are great swathes of land dug up with no one finishing anything off up there.

I then went to the pond shop in Aylesford having forgotten what happened last time I was there. The obnoxiously rude woman was still behind the till. If there was anywhere else selling pond stuff within striking distance I would have given her two fingers and walked out...

 

I stopped off for some petrol as I then headed to work. Getting petrol was easy enough; paying for it not so. There was some epically fat woman standing in the doorway to the petrol station's kiosk piddling about on her phone. She was utterly oblivious to the fact that no one could get in or out of the kiosk with her blocking the way. Eventually after several tactful coughs, the chap three in front of me loudly announced "will you get out of the way!" and the woman seemed to wake up with a start. She was obviously shocked to realise where she was and had no idea of the obstacle she had been to everyone. She bustled away apologizing to anyone who would listen.

 

The rest of the day was rather dull...

(pant - pant - pantosaurus...)